Do they regret how they treated me?

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Questions to ask an advisor

  • 1What emotions do the cards show them feeling about how they treated me?
  • 2Is their regret genuine or just about losing me?
  • 3Do they acknowledge their behavior was wrong?
  • 4Has their ego prevented them from admitting fault?
  • 5Will they ever apologize or reach out to make amends?
  • 6How can I find peace regardless of whether they feel remorse?

Questions the advisor might ask you

  • 1What specifically are you hoping they regret?
  • 2How did they treat you that caused this pain?
  • 3Have they shown any signs of acknowledgment or apology?
  • 4How would knowing they regret it change things for you?
  • 5Are you seeking this for closure or for reconciliation?
  • 6Can you heal even if they never express regret?

What is this question about?

This question explores whether your former partner carries regret or remorse for their behavior during or after the relationship. When someone has hurt us, knowing whether they recognize that pain can be deeply validating. It's about understanding if they've reflected on their actions, feel genuine remorse, or if they've justified their behavior and moved on without a second thought.

Why is this question important?

Knowing whether someone regrets hurting you can be crucial for your healing. Validation that your pain was real and recognized helps many people process trauma. It can also inform whether reconciliation is possible - genuine remorse often precedes meaningful change. However, it's equally important to recognize that your healing shouldn't depend on their remorse. This question helps you understand their emotional state while also processing your own feelings.

How can it help you?

Tarot can tap into the emotional and psychological state of your ex, revealing whether they feel guilt, regret, or remorse beneath the surface. The cards can show whether they think about how they treated you, whether their ego prevents them from acknowledging wrongdoing, or whether they've genuinely reflected and grown. This insight helps you understand their inner world and can provide the validation or closure you need.